متـــى تصبح صديقـــــاً ومتــى تصبح حبيبـــــاً

الصداقة لاتنتهي ! فصديق اليوم قد يبقى صديق الغد.. أما الحب فإنه عندما يرحل ! لا يعود
والذي نحبه مرة ثم ننساه ..لانحبه مرة أخرى

هكذا هي الصداقة ! شجرة صلبة تمر بجميع الفصول وتبقى صامدة طالما هناك من يرويها وهكذا هو الحب ! وردة محاطة بالأشواء وردة لاتشرب إلا من الكأسين معاً

الصداقة يمكن أن تصبح حباً .. بل هي غالبا ما تبدأ كذلك لكن الحب لايمكن أن يتحول إالى صداقة !
ولا يمكن أن يصبح الحبيب مجرد صديق
من نحبه ! نريده لنا وحدنا !أما الصديق ! فهو للجميع

الصداقة درجات ! تبدأ من القاعدة وتنتهي عند القمة
تبدأ من الرقم ( 1 ) وتنتهي حيث اللانهاية فقد تجد صديقا مقرباً ! وآخر اقل قرباً ! وثالثاً بالكاد تذكره
والقريب اليوم قد يصبح بعيداً في الغد ! أو العكس هذه الفرضيات لاتوجد في معادلة الحب فالحب لايتجزأ ! ولادرجات فيه هو درجـة واحدة فقط ولايقبل التحليق إلا عاليا أو يرفض الإبحار ولا يمكن ان تحـب انسانا ثم يقل حبك له الحب لايقبل أنصاف الحلول إما ان يكون قوياً أو ينتهىً

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it
cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get
older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have
or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.

FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in
the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get
married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great
achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self;Respect for others; and responsibility for all your
actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great
friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller
will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.

2- Real well for change at all levels (youth, leaders, and decision makers )it has to be in practical steps to give the idea of active participation its bright form.
But how??
We have as (youth ) to have the concept of responsibility towards our community issues and also take actions towards enforcing others roles at the developmental field.


3- How to identify the Developmental Field and make it clear for all
More clearer … how to present that each one can contribute at his society development .. whatever his position or title.
Parents have an effective role at community development through breading their children on the basis of (Express your self.. share at your around …be initiative ) you know all this small actions have an effective role at formulation of child character and attitude towards community issues at future . and really this part of developmental relations is not given the appropriate concern.

No matter that youth work is aback bone of any community development
or let us say that it is the wings of the community

but in fact the attitude of youth worker is so different from one to other
thats here at Egypt some take is as amission and dream for better
but some make it as asource of earn on the expence of its quality

but may next days bring betters
whats your opinion